Anonymous asked:

I'm really worried about my boyfriend. He hardly texts me, I always have to initiate it. I'm always the one calling him and while I always take the opportunity to flirt with him, he doesn't try anything with me, like he used to. He doesn't plan anything either ". I'm not sure what has changed and it just doesn't feel like he's trying. I've confronted him about it a few times and he says he'll do better but nada. I don't know to take it personally, I think he might be depressed. What should I do?

Brittany Nicole Wright Answer:

scruffymacgoogler:

If he is depressed he should seek some help. Depression is nothing to play around with. 

It is such a motherfucker.

I think the first thing you should do is make sure he is okay. If it is depression like you say he is going need your support more than you need his .

I suggest some therapy. Or at least talk with a mutual 3rd party you can trust with your issues.

Get involved. Before you give up.

And if you can’t handle it, and/or feel like your needs are not getting met it is ok to break up.

"you chug a fifth of alcohol by yourself & everyone around you is too busy cheering to wonder how empty you had to be in order to do it"
- This fucked me up (via obsessiveloserr)

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